Cut the OPTIONS out! PLEASE.

For decades now, we’ve become the fallout generation.
Falling out of jobs, relationships, marriage, career paths, etc.

WHY?

Ever since the colonial times, humans have felt under siege, forced to explain themselves using specific templates, make ideas, beliefs and opinions more tangible, more concrete, more structured, more homogeneous, more historical, more geographical, less psychological, less emotional, to render oneself as the MASTERS of the world.

Result? Rise of ‘options strategies’ Consequence? Rise of a FALLOUT generation.

The fallout of this pressure is the need to locate matters of faith in a particular spot. The timeless thus becomes timebound and the universal becomes particular . What used to once be a matter of faith becomes an egoistical war zone where courts now have to intervene.

What am I talking about? Relationships. Disturbance in this area lends tremors EVERYWHERE else!

With the rise and availability of options people have become fearless to be a fallout. Resulting in loneliness , depression and anxiety.

Everyone wants to be right in a world where adjustment, allowance, accommodation and affection are seen as signs of weakness, even manipulation!

What should be done? Learn to let go. DROP the options.

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Ruchi Bakhai

Uprooting myself and transplanting the soul into the world of ‘words’ to find the ‘new’ in me, to discover the ‘creator’ in me, to reach a place where ‘my’ sub-consciousness meets the conscious in me, to explore the unknown with the strongest medium of ‘words’. Writing has become my back-door approach to having conversations with consciousness. All that fire of becoming a ‘known’ one making an 'impact' than being just another ‘somebody’ doing nothing, brought me to writing. This desire, to achieve my goals, is what drives me through and seems to be the most powerful force of the universe. The curiosity, the anxiousness, the thirst for wanting more, the challenge to try the ‘new’ so as to experience what my inner tensions can bring to me, has become one angle of the life that I live. Professionally, I'm the Founder of EduPsych (www.edupsych.in) and a Psychological Counselor, and this blog is my therapeutic way of healing myself and embracing to heal, when needed, the hurting me. The words that take shape of this blog is an attempt to reach out to all those who need to be tutored and are looking for guidance, training, motivation, mentoring and healing. I am a Learner. I've learned everything I could through bursts of obsession.